I grew up in a house, not a mansion by any means. I had to work for a living, things weren't handed to me on a silver platter. I think we may have had a platter in the kitchen somewhere, but it wasn't silver and life wasn't handed to me on it. We were the type of family that just used a humble platter that maybe we'd put a sandwich on, not a yacht or a horse made of diamonds. Where was I? Right! So, in my life as a pirate cat, I have met many people from all walks of life. From the most wealthy to the less wealthy, I have observed them (cats have excellent eyesight, as you may know) and they have confided in me. What I want to impress upon you is this: The way to be a good person, a happy person, a fulfilled person is not different for a rich person or a poorer person. Treating others with kindness and respect is for everyone. I have a feeling you have a strange and a wrong idea that mistreating people and being unfaithful is somehow a sign of prosperity and a goal to be sought after. But, having a "trophy wife", a person unrespected and unloved who is breaking your things isn't "how the world works", it's a sign you have failed to understand how to truly live well, how to be happy and how to have a happy home. Your "friend" is to be pitied, not emulated.