The point of the vaccines is to reduce the spread and more importantly the severity of the virus. You wife may be more Ill had she have not had the jab so fingers crossed.
I do understand your frustration though. My other half had it and I didnβt so maybe the jab protected me from contracting it and hopefully will do the same for you my friend.
Nothing is more precious than our health and loved ones but watches come a close second π.
Best wishes.
M.