Like you, I prefer to get thru one or two ADs that I have a great relationship with. But sadly, the power of the brands, and the rise of social media like this forum enables the brands to relate and correspond with their customers, better then ever. I feel for the ADs, they cultivate the relationship with end users like us, but after a deals, the only way for customers to secure select pieces are thru their boutiques. Its sad really, but a unavoidable reality. We can explain it all as seeking to improve margins, improving shareholders returns etc etc, its just I guess something a end user like us have to live with. Btw, I can also quote you examples of ADs profiteering themselves, securing pieces that are "traded" at premium outside. I can even quote you, via pm, one case that I literally caught a AD sales exec flogging off a PAM thru a grey dealer, and probably splitting the premium over list with him. So its ever the double edged sword.
I wish you secure your desired piece soon, if anyone, you probably deserve this PAM more then many who has got them.
Best,
Horo