Yes Robert

Jul 13, 2020,17:14 PM
 

I wrote from my heart, and my painful observations.
I was once a blue collared worker who hit a glass ceiling. I could not afford pieces above $8000. That was on a low-medium wage in Singapore. I tried to hang around the big boys but sadly, there was always a divide.
Now, many years later, I’m in a upper middle millionaire household. As the person who posted wrote - expensive watches are like buying toilet paper for the wealthy. Yes it is. But I never forget where I came from, and when I cannot afford something, I will not pretend I could, or try to play the game, but rather, work on myself, my game, to rise up to a higher level, to find the means to sustain the hobby.
I basically have the cars, the houses, the watches, the unobtanium italian suits, the shoes and everything, but I am down to earth, and when someone asks me how I got here, I told them it is all about “preparation”, grit, and perfectionism. In fact, I rather groom someone up and enjoy seeing his success, than sit back and watch dogs eat dogs. It is an abundant world, not a win-lose world many think it is.
Maslow’s Hierarchy is real. For example, look at Aperna. He basically trumped the Dive Watch collection category rather easily. But the road to his field, as a doctor, was likely not easy. What we are seeing is just the tip of the iceberg, in watch collectors, and the base of the iceberg is often filled with grit, hard work, tenacity, and maybe some help from family support and status.

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When did you finally make the leap into more expensive watches?

 
 By: kevinc1001 : July 12th, 2020-16:44
I haven’t been on here much or even participate like most do not because I don’t like it here but because I don’t buy as much like I used too and when I do I tend to buy watches in the $50-200 price range but now I’m getting older (gonna be 35 on 07/19) I... 

I have watches

 
 By: SALMANPK : July 12th, 2020-16:52
that cost me a 100 dollars and they are just as fun and dear to me as watches that cost 100 times or more, the cost is irrelevant, that is why we don't discuss values here, we only care if you love the watch and why, thats all. Congrats on your new additi... 

+1

 
 By: 1WatchMan : July 12th, 2020-17:01
We simply love watches, and every watch gives you something different. You can enjoy them all, in different ways, depending on what you look for with it.

Thank You

 
 By: kevinc1001 : July 12th, 2020-17:19
I will be sure to post pics as soon as the watch comes in.

1 . My thoughts too [nt]

 
 By: Watchonthewrists : July 13th, 2020-01:12

LOL! [nt]

 
 By: amanico : July 15th, 2020-23:06

I feel old

 
 By: kevinc1001 : July 12th, 2020-17:29
I don't think 50s or 60s are old and I'm sure you'll live for a very long time.

Needless to say, expensive is a very relative concept ;-) For most people, a $1k watch in *incredibly* expensive, for others (e.g., art collectors) a $1M watch may be *incredibly* cheap...

 
 By: FabR : July 12th, 2020-17:40
The only important thing is, really, that you seem to enjoy the watches you own (I hate to sound PC or rhetorical, but for once, it's the simple truth! ;-) WPS is actually the most welcoming watch community that you can find on the entire web, and we don'... 

😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

 
 By: K-Lo : July 12th, 2020-18:20
👍👍👍👍👍 👊👊👊👊👊👊

I think for many of us, like you are finding now, there are various points or triggers that might move us from one zip code another.

 
 By: Jay (Eire) : July 12th, 2020-17:59
Many people might see that happen around a life event, marriage, divorce even, a new job etc. Like everything else I think we can all find justifications for spending more on any item, watches no different. As others have said, value doesn’t matter here. ... 

Grow

 
 By: Weems@8 : July 12th, 2020-22:37
Do not shame about wear inexpensive watches. The main reason is, you are a watch enthusiast.

I bought my first nice watch in my early 20s. And I still have it!

 
 By: patrick_y : July 12th, 2020-23:29
But I was into watches before I was even a teenager. And I was a member on PuristSPro/WatchProSite before I even bought myself a nice watch. The community here is excellent, it's definitely all about passion and knowledge. And I'm glad I don't see fanboyi... 

As many said already this is a super welcoming forum that appreciates the passion for watches

 
 By: WH_ : July 13th, 2020-00:03
I am at a similar age as yours and joined the forum recently. I have been amazed by the positivity and passion members here have for watches, it is a wonderful place compared to the other forums (non watch related) that are full of bullying and abuse. It ... 

Looking forward to see your acquisition

 
 By: Boris : July 13th, 2020-01:24
Price is irrelevant: I get as excited by new releases from Seiko and Sinn than I am by those from Lange, Vacheron or Rolex.

My thoughts

 
 By: Cookies : July 13th, 2020-03:05
Welcome to the WIS hobby. Price is a big factor which is an indicator of labour cost, cost of technology, material costs, and advertising. I have a $1000 piece which gives me a lot of joy to wear it. It is a Seiko Presage with an urushi dial. The mechanis... 

A well executed cartwheel

 
 By: Robert65 : July 13th, 2020-04:54
Silly but true: When I was a kid I had boundless energy so my parents enrolled me in a gymnastics studio. I thought I would love jumping around carefree, bouncing on trampolines, diving into pits full of foam, and hanging around with other like-minded kid... 

Well said!

 
 By: Cookies : July 13th, 2020-06:59
I like your analogy a lot.

Cookies just absolutely NAILED the truth is this post

 
 By: Robert65 : July 13th, 2020-09:35
and sadly, many people probably won't read/see it. Such truth and stark reality in this post. The uglier side of watch enthusiasm too. It seems evident that this forum mostly consists of people who are consistently operating at the higher levels of Maslow... 

Yes Robert

 
 By: Cookies : July 13th, 2020-17:14
I wrote from my heart, and my painful observations. I was once a blue collared worker who hit a glass ceiling. I could not afford pieces above $8000. That was on a low-medium wage in Singapore. I tried to hang around the big boys but sadly, there was alwa... 

Cost is relative and mostly irrelevant. Both are cimpletely eclipsed by passion, appreciation and understanding that watches are one of the few things still made with an (unecessary!)

 
 By: InDebtButOnTime : July 15th, 2020-19:29
abundance of fine craftsmanship in a throw away and replace world. Its actually more impressive when a well made watch that's also good wrist art comes in at a lower price point. I have some entry level watches I love as much as my most expensive ones (wh... 

I always loved watches

 
 By: Uncle Chico : July 16th, 2020-01:06
The watch most dear to me is a mechanical watch my soon to be wife gave me our first Christmas together. I collected watches solely based on aesthetics for years before deciding to upgrade my collection when I turned 33. It's still my secret passion. I li...