FabR[Senior Patek Moderator]
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I also work in a research environment my friend, and trust me, mine is perhaps the single worst possible in terms of fashion or watches...
I'm a tenured full professor of mathematics at a US university.
Be yourself, be strong, and people will like you -- or at least they'll get curious. Personally, I even asked to devote a full paragraph of my university official bio to my rare handcraft Pateks; if the bosses that I don't have don't enjoy it that's fine, they can take it down anytime, along with my CV and publication list.
Everything is still up there, and everybody is happy, including myself. Actually, a couple years ago, the press office of the university even sent a journalist to write a long, beautiful piece about one of my Pateks (ref. 5089G-020 from the anniversary collection), which the undergrad students then reprinted in large font in their campus journal. Teaching has never been more fun than in the couple of weeks following that article ;-)
Again, my humble suggestion is to just be yourself, in every environment --- be it research, poker, or walking down the street. Life is certainly more fun this way

Cheers.