A Family Day

Nov 04, 2018,15:32 PM
 

Yesterday my wife and I went back to her ancestral home in the foothills south of Los Angeles. It was a gorgeous day - shorts and t-shirt weather from dawn to dusk.



About 50 years ago her dad bought an abandoned caretaker's house on a Spanish Land Grant property. Ponies had been living in the main rooms! In addition to the real stables, it had formerly been accompanied by a huge greenhouse, whose foundation now encircles a large pool and related outbuildings.




Although my father-in-law has continued to maintain and upgrade it, the house is now likely to be what's referred to as "A Scraper" because it's a pretty old and basic layout with a lot of land in a desirable and expensive area. He's 95 and we don't know how much longer the family will retain this property ...


So we are trying to make frequent (though exhausting) trips to the homestead. There were about 30 family and friends over for a visit. 

One of the most enjoyable moments was checking out the youngest nephew’s first car purchase ever — a 1990 Ford Camper Special 5-speed manual shift, straight 6 engine, long bed, dual tanks, with Eddie Bauer trim. It was fun to hear this energetic 30-year old doctor say “I really wanted the truck but I don’t know how to drive a stick shift ... but after some hesitation, I figured if Uncle Mike and Dad can drive one, I can learn.”



Imagine now Grandad is 95, Mr & Mrs Cazalea are 65+ (the rest of our generation are younger), with 5 grandkids (the tiny tots shown below) who are now in their 30's with about 8 kids between them ... Grandma and brother Phil (with tie) are no longer with us.


I'm now at the stage where I stay in the shade, out of the pool, sit near the cooler full of beer, and reminisce. And wander around the property that I've been married into for about 45 years.



THE GREENHOUSE

One of my favorite spots at "The Ponderosa" is the redwood greenhouse. With wonderful aromas of earth, fertilizer and flowers, it's usually quiet and cool even when kids are squealing at the top of their lungs in the pool. There's not much planting action going on today, but it still has that smell I love and associate with my grandmother's house too.





The architecture is classical southern california, with redwood walls, lots of overhanging vines and ferns, and stoneset walls and steps. 
Stag-horn ferns were very rare and expensive when I was a child, but we have a dozen or more giant specimens in the family now. Perhaps they like warm climates like ours.



There aren't many flowers going in November, but I took a walk anyway



My blue-dial Seiko diver makes a nice contrast against yellow flowers,



red BOUGAINVILLEA brachts.



and orange berries.



at one point there were 14 cars and a motorcycle in the driveway, but at 4 we evicted all the friends and hangers-on, and settled down to a quiet family meal for 24, with roasted chicken & baked potatoes. Since I was doing much of the cooking, there aren't any photos. 



When all the food was consumed and or packed up, we jumped in the car and drove home. About 120 miles in 120 minutes - not bad for SoCal nowadays.

As I was preparing this article, I realized that no watch can keep track of the passage of decades, but we, by owning watches for a very long time, can remember the events and people connected to them.

Thanks for reading along,

Cazalea


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Wonderful, I am so happy to read this post.

 
 By: MichaelC : November 4th, 2018-15:58
Every Family needs a strong foundation. Good to see the memorable times keep coming! God Bless my Friend.

Are you the so-and-so that made me buy that Seiko Diver?

 
 By: Mostel : November 4th, 2018-16:17
I own the black dial version--it must be the most perfect diver ever created under 1K--if you need a banger for those oh so casual times--or perhaps physical times--where you can bonk a watch and feel OK about it--yet still LOVE the whole watch--inside an... 

Family

 
 By: Shanwick777 : November 4th, 2018-16:23
Just a lovely post! That's all I can say!

Hugely heartwarming!

 
 By: InHavenPro : November 4th, 2018-17:20
Having a family that counts exactly two at this moment in time I felt wholehearted fulfillment from reading your lovely post. Thank you and all the very best to yours, Filip

What a wonderful post !.. One can feel the spirit of family love, and a certain magic of the surroundings..

 
 By: hs111 : November 4th, 2018-20:06
That blue Seiko is a lovely choice & Thx for your kind sharing ! Best, hs

What a fantastic post, Mike!

 
 By: KMII : November 4th, 2018-23:44
Love the family insight that you let us be part of and the shots are very cool! One can see though that even if you are not the first into the pool, you still choose a watch that will not suffer if you change your mind (or get pushed in)

I enjoyed every word and every pic ...

 
 By: Marcus Hanke : November 5th, 2018-00:41
... thank you for that very personal insight into your own foundation! As we see, watches make sense only when they are permitted to be with us und accompany our lives. Marcus

Wonderful story

 
 By: Boris : November 5th, 2018-01:36
Wonderful pictures, too. Reminds me how much I like LA. As for the Seiko, this is my favorite diver of theirs, bar none. Don't know why I haven't bought one already.

Brought a smile to my face

 
 By: Elijah : November 5th, 2018-05:29
Thanks for such a wonderful post Cazalea. I always enjoy your posts. This one managed to transport me out of my mundane day for a few minutes.