I agree that stepping back is a good idea - for both of us. Certainly I had considered contacting you in private regarding this discussion, and possibly if your initial reply to my post and the rather extreme conclusions you reached had been to me in a PM, we would not be where we are now.
"You have read what you want, were pre-disposed to want, to read into our comments"
Guilty as charged, as are you. I think after some reflection we will both see where some things have gone wrong, and how what was said could be interpreted in different ways.
I certainly regret the direction this thread has taken and I am aware I am partly responsible for it, but not totally. We have both taken liberties, and I do apologize for offending you.
If you would like to discuss this further, please contact me via PM.
Regards, Al