There really isn’t a one size fits all to the “problem”. I think ultimately it all boils down to how you feel and how much you want to show and share. The best GTGs for me are always those that are private and personable. These days I much prefer one on one meet ups. Why? Because one of my best friends once said, the best of times are about people and relationships. The watches are only side show. Getting to know that individual, understanding what motivates him/her behind the collection are far greater that the watches. And a one on one GTG allows me to form a deeper connection with that individual. When I choose to give someone my time, I commit fully. I don’t care about showing what I have in the collection really. I share when a particular passion for a particular watch stirs within me. And I share it with those those that matter. I’ve been to a GTG where I brought my entire Patek and independent watch collection for a client who happened to be a very good friend. I’ve also gone to a De Bethune GTG wearing a Parmigiani Tonda PF which some might say was way out of line (who the hell cares? It was a busy work day). My best moments for me at GTGs are when watch conversations transcend into conversations about life.
Regards
Gatsby