It doesn’t look that big on your wrist and I belief oh could very well wear it. Is it white gold or platinum as the platinum could be heavy and big at the same time. I noticed the 11h55: a prelude to code 11.59?
Anybody who is not a watch lover or watch expert will be complaining about the size (I do not mean you). You can easily argue how complicated this piece is and that it needs to be bigger. I personally would not think a second about the size: it is an outs...
Taking on a watch like that Perpetual Calendar, Equation of Time, Moonphase, Sunrise/Sunset while very beautiful, could be like adopting a child almost ready to go off to college... (at least it won't call you at 4 am for bail or show up in a Spring Break...
But to me, the complication is such a subtle/sophisticated one that I feel the watch itself should be a bit more subtle to reflect it, whereas AP’s execution here is sort of big and brash. Just my 2 cents...