Hello dear Cookies

Aug 28, 2022,20:20 PM
 

I'm glad to read your post and I think you have a good heart. And that's one of the most important things in life, because no matter if you are rich, mid class or poor, you're always going to help someone in need.

Yes, we have nothing assured in this life. When the pandemic started, my own brother went bankrupt because of a divorce and lack of business. He lost his dearest 16610LV (which he asked me if I wanted to rescue from the loan shop, which I couldn't because of lack of money), along with several other fine watches and his BMW. But he doesn't regret it because he could bring food to his sons and pay the rent and debt. He went into depression and for a time, and reached the bottom. Of course he had friends and family who helped him as we could, and eventually he's starting to raise his business again. Now he sees life differently and he is even more compassionate about people in need. He still loves watches and eventually will buy another sub, but he will not loose his sleep if he can't. He continues to enjoy watches for what they are and has settled for the moment with a nice Seiko 5 which I helped him to get at a very good price, and another dear purist friend helped me to bring home.

In the other side, I work for a government health program which serves the poorest people in my country. And I have seen a lot of poverty and worked for them, bringing food and medicine, as well as teaching them productive activities and community development. But sometimes it looks like it will never be enough.

Every time I wear an expensive watch, I think it is somehow contradictory. It is sometimes hard to deal with. But also sometimes poverty is not because of lack of means, but because lack of education. And that is the worst type for me.

So how do I rationalize this: well, first: my father taught me we are all equal, second, he also taught me to try to help others, anyway you can, and third he taught me also to live well and enjoy finer things in life, earned with the sweat of your hard work. I also want to inherit my son a nice watch collection, just as my dad left me some nice watches. We have to find some kind of equilibrium: find the way to give to others as well to our families and to ourselves (prosperity).

I have seen people starving and I have seen tons of fruit getting rotten in the ground because lack of resources to move them from the orchard, to where it's needed, and because of unfair market. This makes me always ask: what could I do? How could I solve this? And almost always the answer is: lots of money. Even if I sold all my watches it would be not enough. It makes me always laugh when very rich, ultra rich organizations try to justify their agenda saying they are looking for sustainability, and a better distribution of wealth (yes, they mean the wealth of others, not theirs) and I think: well, give me all those money you have stashed in your mega-banks and I will organize a world distribution network to take food from where it is being wasted to where it is needed. With that king of money we could well afford a plane and truck flotilla to take food anywhere in the world no matter the cost! If there's lack of food and poverty is not because of lack of food production, or resources, but because of politics.

Anyway, I'm sorry for the rant here. I just wanted to close my writing by saying: help anyway you can, always, and you will find the way to make this world better from where you stand.

And also enjoy your watches even if someone doesn't understand our passion, but always remember they are objects, beautiful, enjoyable, but still objects.

All this takes me to a more important think which I have learned here: friendship is much better than richness, because with friends, we can always have or give help, and do much greater things than alone. For me friendship is synonymous of organized good!

Best regards.

René




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Homeless People

 
 By: Cookies : August 28th, 2022-19:14
It’s just another day for you and me in paradise…sang Phil Collins. Daily, I see wealthy people. I’m surrounded by them. I’m numbed by them. I am probably one of them. Is there more to life than buying the next watch, or car? I didn’t want to find out too...  

You speak the truth. This makes me sad.

 
 By: edtonkin : August 28th, 2022-19:51
Also, I think about this often and feel very guilty. Why is it that some have so much while many have nothing? I think we try to do what we can with a caring and passionate heart; as you have shown here yourself; yet it’s not nearly enough and hard to sol... 

Thank you for taking notice

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:19
Yes it is not nearly enough for most of the homeless. These are complex cases, and there are terrible stories out there to a good Samaritan who got bitten back. Yes we must be thankful of the lifes we have, to have a roof and warm bed everyday.

Nice of you to help...

 
 By: mdg : August 28th, 2022-20:09
...but these people are almost always homeless because of drug addiction and mental illness. I will give them food but never money. We give money to charities (with almost zero overhead) that know how best to deal with this sort of thing. I am less enamor... 

Yes mental illness seems to be the common theme

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:20
They could not fit into institutions, and run from help, for fear of the stigma or being “caught” and locked up.

Wonderful gesture,

 
 By: InHavenPro : August 28th, 2022-20:12
And reasoning that is at once pragmatic yet wholehearted. Everything you mentioned in the post is absolutely accurate, and I have tragically witnessed far too many such examples on the streets of Los Angeles, where a literal small town of around 60,000 pe... 

I wonder why Phil Colins made that song

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:21
It never really dawned upon me until lately, where the lyrics sank in. Am I the man who started to whistle as he crosses the street? Could I have done differently? Phil Colins has a beautiful voice.

100%

 
 By: InHavenPro : August 29th, 2022-07:31

Yes my friend

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:22
Always look back to those who struggle to catch up.

Hello dear Cookies

 
 By: renerod : August 28th, 2022-20:20
I'm glad to read your post and I think you have a good heart. And that's one of the most important things in life, because no matter if you are rich, mid class or poor, you're always going to help someone in need. Yes, we have nothing assured in this life... 

Great story Rene

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:24
There, it happened to your brother too. It’s like a domino when these happen in capitalist countries where costs of living are astronomical. One starfish at a time…we can’t help everyone it is true.

Aprecio mucho tus palabras mi querido amigo

 
 By: renerod : September 3rd, 2022-17:53
Un fuerte abrazo

A ti tambien!

 
 By: amanico : September 3rd, 2022-20:49

Sometimes I rather help the helpless pets, especially dogs who are loyal to us humans…

 
 By: Clueless_Collector : August 28th, 2022-20:42
I believe in Karma, and I will not help those who look healthy, carry a sign and still smoking. I am very frustrated of the looters, robbers and sucker punching cowards who suffer no consequences. I will help the handicap homeless people but like you said... 

Hello dear friend

 
 By: renerod : August 28th, 2022-21:07
I understand your point of view. There's logic in it. Many times people that really doesn't need the help abuses of the good hearted people. As you mention God, I'm going to assume you're a believer. So always remember that even God sent some one to help ... 

Yes my friend…follow our hearts and be kind of what I’m practicing…

 
 By: Clueless_Collector : August 28th, 2022-21:33
I just want to be an ordinary, decent person who is responsible to the people around me. I had helped and served as volunteers before, in temples, charity organizations when I was a teen. I can remember clearly the happy feeling of giving and helping. Thi... 

Indeed it is

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:27

Yes many fake ones out there

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:27
Beware and be safe too. Always take precautions.

Yes I saw many

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:26
Pretending to be homeless but actually peddling drugs by the sidewalks. Others smoked cigarettes till no end. There are many fake ones out there. A common theme I noticed is that the fake ones tend to congregate around high flow areas. The “genuine” ones ... 

Bless you

 
 By: takman : August 28th, 2022-23:42
I’m not religious but that was an angelic act that not many would imitate. Kudos to you and thanks for sharing the story. It is true they are not all thieves and crooks, it can happen to anyone. We should all be half or even a tenth of how kind you are. ... 

I don’t know why i keep doing it

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:30
Something stirred in me. I see myself in their pain. I was left for dead by my ex-wife who did something quite similar to me. Roamed the streets of Saigon for a few days, and didn’t know where I fit in. I flew back home to Singapore after 4 years trying t... 

Pls give some when you see them

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-06:31
I know you will. Some drink or bread or clothes will do. Don’t give money, because in many countries, the government actually pays these people benefits already.

This is a long-standing social issue

 
 By: W. York : August 29th, 2022-10:34
There is very little we can do, but we should be grateful for what we have

That’s right

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-11:05
Sometimes we do something nice and it can backfire royally. I just listened to a podcast about Schizophrenia. Apparently, 1-3% of the population has it. A robust support network for the afflicted. In this case, the homeless man’s support network simply wo... 

Thanks Ted

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-13:30
Haven’t seen u here for a while. Beautiful Mokarran there. I am wearing my Bathyscaphe hard. It is a wonderful piece.

Our walking routes have to be carefully chosen

 
 By: cazalea : August 29th, 2022-16:17
as the population of homeless around us exceeds 8000 and many are sleeping in the morning on sidewalks, lawns and in bushes. Not so bad perhaps as Los Angeles and San Francisco, but still a big problem. We have lived in the same area for a long time, and ... 

Spot on Cazalea

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-21:41
Real life experience you have there and it’s great you’ve shared it. I will have to choose my walking paths very carefully too. It isn’t pleasant to be preyed on, stalked because one is kind. It can descend into danger too. When one becomes too reliant on... 

Not a happy camper,-

 
 By: winther502 : August 29th, 2022-17:51
Dear All I'm finding this post,- and many of the comments deeply disturbing. In a wealthy and civil society citizens in deep need of help should not be dependent on the good will of (a few) fellow citizens. Please stop the hypocrisy, pay your taxes and vo... 

Well said

 
 By: Cookies : August 29th, 2022-22:14
A complex situation this is. How is the homeless situation in Denmark?

Thanks Cookies

 
 By: winther502 : August 30th, 2022-16:25
Here in Copenhagen the homeless are hardly visible. Lates count says app. 6.500 (pop. is app. 6.5 m) with around 12% off those having slept on the street in the week of counting. Most homeless stays with family, in shelters or hostels. App. half have been... 

100%

 
 By: Cookies : August 31st, 2022-02:15
That is a very well thought of and researched answer. I heard so too, that Denmark has very good policies and systems to solve homelessness.