Pam 338 that Nicolas mentioned. It's not a small watch by any means but will provide a nice fit for you due to its relative thinnest in conjunction with the wired lugs.

cheers
fernando
for your 1st Panerai since you seem to prefer a smaller size due to your wrist. Then perhaps a 40mm or 42mm Radiomir as your 2nd
Cheers,
Anthony
Thank you all for your suggestions. I went to the boutique again and tried the watches on and am set to get a 44mm luminor 1950. My choice now is between the Pam 233 (which is gorgeous but a bit out of my budget) and the Pam 351 (titanium). The Pam 233 sits better and lower but the Pam 351 also looks very good.
Any suggestions on which one to go for?
Thanks again for all your input so far
I've never been a fan of the power reserve fang, so that's why my vote goes for the PAM351.
Cheers,
Anthony