The 5960R was introduced a few months into 2009. By my count, that was four years ago. Either ways, you said "about six years old" so it could be a miscalculation, but if you're able to see things two years before anyone else sees them, I'd be intrigued.
I'm not sure that I agree with your recollection of how the 5960R was received at launch, but we seem to be at either poor recollection of the launch time anyways.
I have a question for you:
You said...
"The new dials while in keeping with a more classic look also seem to be a way of playing it safe and going back to it's Patek roots in terms of dial design."
Regarding your quote above, what makes you think that they were trying to go back to Patek roots of dial design? What makes you think the two recent dials are more "rooted" than the original silver dial of the 5960R?
To answer your question about what others are thinking about this watch and how it's trending...
My advice to you is this; "Fashions fade, style is eternal" by Yves Saint Laurent. Everyone needs to focus on defining one's own style and not worrying about what others think. I would urge you to make an emotional decision, rather than a calculated one. This is about personal preferences and style. Buy something you love, buy something trendy if you love trendy things, buy something classic if that's who you are.
Who gives a hoot (insert your choice of four letter word) about what others will say ten hooting years from now about bell bottom curves etc. Buy what you love! And if you're true to yourself, you'll continue loving it for decades to come!
An increasing percentage of Patek Philippe owners/prospects defecting/changing from assertive trenders to worried followers. That's something to worry about...