But, from a size perspective, I think it looks fine on you in the pictures given that;
- wrist shots always exaggerate the size of a watch;
- it looks like the watches are being held against your wrist, rather than properly fitted to your wrist;
- 41mm is not that big and the lugs are not even close to the edges of your wrist, so, for me, it looks perfectly proportionate on your wrist.
I’m biased, but my preference is for the blue one.
Best of luck in your quest for a watch!
Jon