This is a question most of us had already

Always hard to bring an answer considering we are all different but this is how I see things.
There are many watches we find appealing but it is not because I'm attracted by one that it would be a good thing to get it. Comfort, fad etc are elements you may not think of at first (comapred to the look that pleases you) but may make the purchase a mistake on the long run.
Hence, it is not because because other watches are appealing that it is a good decision to get them.
This leads to ask what is the most pleasing on the long run after asthetical aspects.
Why it may not last:
- if it is too heavy or the caseback is uncomfortable;
- if it is too big for what we like or for our cufs' size;
- bold asthetical choices.
etc...
Anything that seems a little annoying, that you think you might cope with rather easily, but you finally won't.
I know today what can be a problem for me while wearing a watch.
This being said, I would focus on selecting the watch I really like and would really enjoy on the long run. Hence, if it is the 5960P, it is the one I should take, even if I can't get the others.
If I think the 5110P is the best on the long run, then I should go for this one instead (or any other from you list).
Thus, for me, my budget doesn't drive my decision. Only the enoyment of the watch after several months.
About the 5110P: I think it definitely can be worn as a dressy Calatrava. That's how I see it too (5110R for me).
The 5960P is a fantastic patek, in many aspects: it has all. The complication, the nobless, the beauty, a little sportiness but still elegant, the material, the DNA and for an rather affordable price for a Patek.
This is the one I would get as well but my concern today is about if I would like its weight as I like light watches (one of the elements why I love Richard Mille).
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