There have been a couple of threads lately (on the JLC and Hublot fora, notably) discussing women who wear men's watches. Personally, the gender distinction has always been somewhat bemusing; great watch design is more often than not androgynous, such that the only remaining issue (and it is an issue for all of us) is simply a question of size.
Some brands recognise this and issue some of their styles in 'larger' and 'less large' cases, to accommodate 'larger' and 'less large' wrists. A few that spring to mind include the ROO, Lange 1, Speedy, Museum Watch - you can all name many more, no doubt.
This fact has not escaped the attention of Mrs pplater. She a 'practical' lady; a formidable lady; she is not, however, besotted by watches (sigh....). Her dutiful, loving and generous husband has tried time after time to bedeck her in the offerings of Patek or JLC but those efforts are rebuffed with a flick of the hand and a gentle huff. Indeed, it took three quick glasses of champagne, vacation vertigo and a great pitch from the uber-sales assistant at Cartier in Place Vendome to get her into a Tank, which now sits at the bottom of the safe more often than not.
However: practical lady that she is, Mrs pplater has taken to 'eyeing off' some of the other watches in the safe - watches that most decidedly were not purchased with her in mind! It is very interesting, though, to see what her eyes fall upon - the watches which appeal to the woman who appeals....
She has scorned complications - has no need for a chrono, no interest in a moonphase, no time for an alarm. She likes them quiet, plain and very simple - just like her taste in husbands. She was given the pick of the box (only two or three were sneakily removed beforehand); she dallied with a Calatrava and the MUT, and would have been welcome to wear either, but - horror! - she has a very soft spot for this one -
[Errrrrr, that's not her wrist in the photo. You knew that, right?]
What to do??? The usual ruses have not worked - "Darling, you look fat in that one" - they just provoke the usual playful kick to the groin. Unless she can be distracted quickly with something even plainer and simpler (watch, not husband) it seems the BeBa is destined for a life of gardening, child-chauffeuring and cappucino. Any suggestions (preferably non-life threatening) would be welcome....
The point of all this, however, is to enquire from others with significant others whether your tastes are similar, or diverge? Do 'great minds think alike' or do 'opposites attract'? Which of your watches are you at risk of losing to your significant other, if he/she/it is given half the chance? Do you share, and if not, why not - did you skip that bit in your vows?
Looking forward to taking solace in your tales of common misery....
Cheers,
pplater.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAaCjCIrmWc
Cheers,
pplater.
This message has been edited by pplater on 2011-02-05 17:15:44
. I bought her GG mickey and Hermes watch. When I want to buy her Van Cleef, she said she wanted the cash instead. I guess she is smarter than me and try to save something for the children.SCRIPT:
"Darling,
Provenance of vintage watches is fraught with mystery.
That old thing could have been snatched from a dead old man's wrist and sold by a cold-hearted family member..... "
Regards,
MTF
This message has been edited by MTF on 2011-02-06 00:26:05I didn't see you this way, pplater...
But you made me smile, which is greatly appreciated.
I have something for you. Here it is, something I've hidden for a good occasion, which has just arrived:

and it is certainly plain and simple. Would that be worth a try?
Other than that she has a Reverso Duo (not Duetto - doesn't like diamonds on watches) and a vintage mechanical egg-shaped Hermes, and I have preordered the new steel Breguet Reine de Naples which I think she will love. If she would ever wear my watches I would probably have to medicate myself just thinking of how they will bang into her jewelery, not to mention what else will happen to them as she goes about her day. So I feel for you.
Best
Andreas
she's
completely indifferent... I would like
even to hear some f words regarding my addiction....nothing...
I live with surrounded by quartz lovers and wife that patronizes my habit
looking at that and that my name is Damian one could think I live in hell
...
Best



the same has happened to a diamond calatrava that my father has, it has now turned into "mother's dinner at friends house" watch..My better half has free access to any of my watches, with one or two exceptions (unreplaceable, sentimental watches).
It all began when I fixed up a single crown Super Compressor Enicar....then she eyed off my Chopard...and my Favre Leuba...and an old diver for the beach....About the only watches she avoids are the (frankly, quite ugly) Aqualands.
It actually work in my favour. I get a new watch. She assesses and wears it. So it was really her idea...